117. Choose friends who are different from you or similar to you?

Some people choose friends who are different from themselves. Others choose friends who are similar

to themselves. Compare the advantages of having friends who are different from you with the

advantages of having friends who are similar to you. Which kind of friend do you prefer for yourself?

Why?

『分析』

与志同道合(cherish the same ideals and follow the same path; share the same views; have a common goal; have

similar ideals and beliefs;)的朋友交往的好处；但是人与人之间毕竟存在着不同。

与性格不同，兴趣不同的人交往的好处。

选择立场，可以自由一些。比如，可以选择这样的立场：我认为，选择朋友不一定要选择相同的或者是不

同的。因为人们之间总是有一些相同点的同时有一些不同点。关键在于，一个人是不是诚实、睿智、幽默？

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『范文』

In general, my friends are quite similar to me. There are a number of reasons as to why this is the case. When

two people are similar to each other, they have a wide basis of topics available to them for conversation, and are

also able to bond over many types of experiences. For example, one of my major interests is music. I frequently

enjoy going to see musical acts perform. If a potential friend is not interested in the same type of music as me, we

will not be able to share these experiences together. Without being able to have these bonding experiences, it is

difficult for an acquaintanceship to evolve into a friendship.

Another reason why we usually choose friends who are quite similar to us is because having similar friends

who have common interests can help us come up with new ideas regarding things we are interested in. If I am

particularly interested in a project, but cannot seem to advance the thought to my satisfaction, it is quite likely that

one of my friends will be able to offer insight on the subject that I hadn't previously thought of.

Nonetheless, it is important to consider exactly how similar one must be to me for me to form a friendship

with them. I have many friends who, on the surface, are quite different from me. However, we share one or two

common interests that allow us to communicate on a clear, meaningful level. To explain, I will give an example of

a particular friend who fits into this category. I met this friend at the opening of a new Italian restaurant in town. We

have very different interests, and very different occupations. However, we are both connoisseurs of fine cuisine.

Based on this one small connection, we formed a very good friendship.

In conclusion, I find that it is possible to have friends who appear similar to or different from myself. The

key to a strong, lasting friendship is finding one or two areas that both parties find interesting.

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